The Importance of Rice
We probably all know someone, either directly or indirectly, that let his fury at a break up cause him or others private injury. Usually, it boiled into a point that never went beyond the exchange of a few punches with the rival man. Maybe it was someone you knew who keyed their ex's car or wrote profanities about them in a public place. The Civil Courts overflow with personal lawsuits seeking damages against former lovers due to acts of stupidity, done out of anger.
Sometimes, we understand someone that went beyond the point of self-control and, as the situation escalated, each measure of his wrath went to a degree that resulted in a seemingly astounding conclusion. RATIONALES AND RESULTS
The danger of losing someone in a relationship promotes anxiety. Men may respond to that particular anxiety with aggression - part of that "fight or flight" response we pick when threatening situations confront us. It is not so simple as just fear of losing his partner, as many anxiety factors might be present.
Fear he will not find love again.
It is possible that some men may feel unworthy, guilty and ashamed. Each man's rationale could be distinct: from real reasons to merely subconscious motives. The feeling of failure makes him furious. The man takes the fury and anger out on those people who are around him. When asked why he reacts the way he does, most men cannot verbalize their feelings. Leo Madow, M.D. in his book, "Fury" said,
"There are two major reasons for fast open manifestations of anger. The first is the person has accumulated so much rage that just a little more is needed to set him off. This is seen in the one who overreacts to a situation by becoming angrier than is justified. This type of man has had many dissatisfactions in his life and is walking around with a high concentration of stored up anger. The 2nd reason is the fast-to-anger individual has discovered that anger works and is conditioned to continue its use. If your child discovers that by having a temper tantrum he gets what he desires, he's encouraged to have another the following time he is refused something. If the next one is equally successful, the youngster will quickly create seopressor of behavior."
The following is a true story. I knew this man and was guest of his and his live-in fiancee at a celebration held at his home. Upon meeting the perpetrator involved in this event, the understood the relationship between their ex would not last, as all did, that may begin to see the apparent mismatch of personalities. Eventually, his fiancee came to the same decision.
Many of us imagined physical abuse, on his part toward her, as the rationale for her decision to terminate the relationship but whatever the case, he let his mental anger take control. His inability to believe and his instant activities beneath the influence of fury led to the next result and were reported in papers and television in the surrounding place. The must confess that I failed to like or trust this guy upon meeting him, and that's the reason this story may appear more in the form of a paper report. Most of it was chosen from a news report; in order to maintain my private view different in the facts of the event.
Steven W. Wheatley, shot a Pocono Mountain (Pennsylvania) Police officer and was sentenced to 15-to-30 years in state prison. He was convicted of attempted murder, after he shot and injure policeman Michael Rice of Pocono Mountain Regional Police during a standoff with authorities at Wheatley's residence.
O'Brien continued, "you're lucky you are not facing life in prison." O'Brien was referring to Rice's shotgun wound in the side of Officer Rice that proved to be life threatening. Rice, fully recovered now and is "merely happy to be back on patrol." Wheatley, 36, and the father to two kids, told O'Brien he understood, "This is just not all about me, I had not been victimized. Rice did not mean for one to get hurt."
The sentences were imposed consecutively. A Monroe County jury deliberated for just two hours before convicting Wheatley on March 9, 2001.
Wheatley shot Rice in the side of his chest on June 15, 2000, within a dispute with his fiancee over a heart shaped diamond ring. Rice had sprayed Wheatley in the face with pepper solution while attempting to stop a standoff. Wheatley had obstructed his girlfriend's and another officer's vehicles into his drive with affilorama review and refused to transfer it. Pocono Mountain police officer Maurice Vaccaro drew praise after the trial for using restraint in managing the escalating dispute all day before Rice was shot. "The policemen tried to do whatever is in their own capacity to bring the matter to a conclusion calmly," Christine said.
Wheatley said he was especially upset by his fiancee's refusal to give him back the ring because, "I gave my heart to her, all my feelings I gave to her."
This man is now in jail and will probably be incarcerated until at least the year 2016. It could have been worse for the person as he could have killed a policeman or be dead himself. Although never considered educated by those of us, who knew him, he definitely had enough common sense to understand you don't have an armed confrontation with the police.
He desired the engagement ring from his fiancee and he blocked her way out in an attempt to regain it promptly. He was clearly furious and his emotional state induced him to perform actions that the logical mind might have viewed the possible conclusions to. Authorities were called and he finally shot one of them.
Had the police taken merely a day or perhaps a minute to think, before he reacted to his mental anger, this guy would be enjoying liberty today. Although improbable he would have recovered the love he lost, after as many of the years have passed sitting in jail, he'd probably be with a new girl better suited to him if he had used just a tiny portion of his underused mental skills.
Anxiety of the rejection he just received.
Fear of being abandoned.
Anxiety the is a failure.
Fear the is not in charge of his life.
You could read this and think that you would never permit yourself to be as stupid or violent as this individual but you might be thinking rationally. This wasn't your love, your scenario, or your emotions at play. There are also various degrees of the stupidity you could find yourself capable of. Would you prevent yourself after merely a verbal assault or can you end up in a physical confrontation from the brand new boyfriend or capable? Are you capable of destroying her property or